CATCH CHEATERS - INDENTIFY INFIDELITY
The following is a guide
to help you get a better understanding if
you mate is cheating on you.
Answer every question honestly. It is better to get the facts before you confront the suspected cheater, because if they know you are suspicious, they will become even more secretive. This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them. These question DO NOT tell you if your spouse is cheating for certain, but rather a general guide toward understanding cheating. If you believe for certain your spouse is cheating seek professional help.
ATTENTION:
Recently has your spouse become much more attentive to you, or be very
critical of small faults you may or may not have?
At the beginning of an affair the mate that is cheating is more attentive to his spouse. This is due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time. After the affair has been going on for a while the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair in their mind. The cheater has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, especially the mate (i.e. if he/she didn't act the way they do, well then maybe I wouldn't be doing the things I do).
COMMUNICATION:
Does your spouse or partner get strange phone calls? Do they use their
cell phone a lot in private? Do they hide windows and have a lot of
private online time? Up until most recently cell phones, were the most
common way for cheaters to communicate, however, today, e-mail and
online chat are now even more common. Still, many cheaters use cellular
telephones to communicate with their lovers. Should your mate have a
cellular telephone you may want to get a detailed billing of the calls
made from the cellular phone to determine whether a certain number has
been frequently called. A good area to start looking is for the first
number called when your mate first leaves for work and the same number
called again right before they return home. Be tuned in to home
telephone calls when your mate has a tendency to whisper or gives a
quick answer and immediately hangs up or when you answer the telephone
and get an abrupt hang up.
SEXUALITY:
Does your spouse have a sexier aura lately? Do they have a dramatically
higher or lower sex drive? Do they groom more often, buy new clothes,
dress more sexy at work? Cheaters grooming habits will change. Cheaters
will be more attentive to their person (i.e.. the way they dress,
frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming of their hair, switching of
colognes, etc...). Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e. more
sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.
PHYSICAL
CLUES:
Does your spouse have to "work late" more often? Do they go out with
their friends more often? Are their finances being dipped into more than
usual? Do they act suspicious or get defensive with simple questions?
The workplace is most of a common place where affairs start. Women tend
to start long-term relationships (with bosses, co-workers, mystery
lovers etc.), and is likely someone close to her. Physical signs to look
for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair is lipstick
on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, checking
underwear for secretion stains. You can also check their wallets and/or
the glove compartments of their car to see if they left receipts, pieces
of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, etc. Another sign is
"Finances". "If someone wants to play they have to pay" therefore
keeping an eye on their monies (i.e. check stubs, bank account balances,
credit card bills, etc...) would tell you whether their spending more
money than usual.
INTUITION: Do you believe in your heart or gut that your spouse is cheating? This is the MOST important question! Most people who truly believe there is something wrong, are usually right. Only YOU know the small intimate details of your relationship, thus, it is easier for you to know than anyone else. Your intuition is your most powerful radar, trust it!
If you answered YES to one or more of these question there is a chance that your spouse is cheating. Please hire a private investigator or place spy software on your computer, since cyber affairs and online communication are the most common ways cheaters interact. Don't make assumptions, get the facts first.
Written by Luigi
Di Serio
http://www.diserio.com
for Catch-Cheaters.com
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